why has she dumped me :(?
Question by webbster: why has she dumped me :(?
i was with my gf for nearly 3 months, we were in a long distance relationship but we spoke and met up as often as we possibly could
and 2 days ago we was fine and happy and joking around and had no problems in the world, and then yesterday she wouldnt answer her fone so i went on msn and first thing she said was…”im sorry” and i was like “for what?” and she said “its not gonna work, i cant be in a long distance relationship” and i asked why is it that you randomly decided this after nearly a month and she just said she been thinking about it for a while and couldnt be in a long distance relationship, which is odd because we had a meet up date for sunday that she was so excited about 🙁
and then we got abit worked up over the fone and she said “ok you wanna know why i dumped you? i dumped you because im going out tomorow night and i have a feeling im gonna cheat on you and i thought its better i end it before anything happens” and i went mad at her saying what a selfish bitchy comment that was and she then changed her story back to “i dont wanna be in a long distance relationship” and never mentioned the cheating comment agn since
i have tried hard not to lose her, i called her telling her i love her and asked her if she loved me last night and she told me she still loves me before bursting into tears and i told her we can fix it then and she told me we couldnt she dont want a long distance, and i kept trying to convice her but it seemed like she had made her mind up and nothing was gonna change it
i have tried to call her and text her all day and she hasnt replyed and i begged her to answer saying it was hurting so much, but she just switched her fone off
how can we go from happy 2 days ago, to her wanting to get rid of me next day :(, i cant help but think someone might of got her to dump me, becuase as soon as she dumped me she didnt wanna hear my voice at all like it was gonna change her mind
i have questioned how she could love me but be doing this? and why she dont mind me feeling crap while she just switches her fone off
whats going on? i think i offically lost her but i dont know why 🙁
i always knew she hated the distance as much as i did, but 2 days ago she was telling me how great it will be sunday and yesterday she was trying her hardest to say goodbye to me :(, like i had to **** off as fast as possible
im so gutted and heading towards a break down
Answer by Kelly K
yes long distance relationships are hard work but if both partners are willing to do it, it CAN work. no offence, but if your girlfriend called you and said she wants to break up because she may cheat on you the next night at a party, thats not the type of girlfriend you want.
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